Little Secrets to a Happy Sex Life

 Believe it or not, things don’t work out when you stay aloof of certain discussions before getting along together between the sheets. You cannot expect everything to go smooth once you have entered into a physical relationship. Although what you aim is some hardcore sex with your partner that can bring pleasure to both, there are certain things that must be discussed beforehand. Once you know each other’s preferences, desires and past stories, you will gain more confidence towards loving each other and therefore make your relationship better and stronger with time.

Start discussing about your fetishes and fantasies. Talk more about your desires to your partner so that when you come up with something new to be experimented on her body, she does not get embarrassed.  Now, do not start discussing about the application of oil for sensual massages as these are usually acceptable. But if you are planning to use some sex toy, bring a bondage kit or make her wear a vibrating panty, talk to her in detail. On the other hand, if you are planning to make your man wear a cock ring, just talk a bit about it in case he later refuses to do it.

Sometimes, it is better to let your partner know about your sex history. If you had with someone and you have still not admitted it, go ahead and share it. You are bound to feel better, and if you are at the receiving end, just accept it with this thought process that young age is prone to mistakes. If you know that you are the only one in your partner’s life and vice versa, it’s better to let go off and make a fresh start. Apart from this, try swapping calendars and don’t stick to the same old sex routine. Doing sex at an odd time of the day will always leave your partner surprised.